May 4, 2016

An update on Evan

Last week was a rough one. We had a big scare with Evan. We are not out of the woods yet but this part of the forest is a lot better than the part we were in last week. Here's what happened and an update:

Tuesday, April 19th - At bedtime, Evan mentioned that his left foot was hurting. He said he had twisted it at recess that day. He didn't say anything after school and then he had basketball practice that night and went on a 3 mile hike with his scout troop after that. I thought he probably just pulled something and told him to go to bed.

Wednesday, April 20th - He woke up saying that his foot was still hurting. I thought he would be fine and sent him to school. After school, he was limping a lot on it. It was really bothering him. We put him to bed that night a little concerned about it.

Thursday, April 21st - He got up and didn't want to walk on it. He said it hurt too bad so he hopped around on the right foot. Uh oh. Maybe we should have listened to him sooner. We decided to keep him home from school and take him to Med 7 to have it x-rayed. Here he is at Med 7:


They didn't see anything on the x-rays so they decided it was probably sprained. They gave him a brace and told him to stay off of it. He spent most of the weekend on the couch with it elevated.

Sunday, April 24th - that night he was crying it was hurting so bad. We thought that maybe it wasn't a sprain because that should have felt better by now, not worse. 

Monday, April 25th - I dropped T off at preschool at 8:30 and went straight to the pediatrician's office and asked if they could get him in. They were able to see him at 9:15 - perfect. Kurt met us there. I knew the pediatrician wouldn't really be able to do anything for him except refer him to a specialist, which is what I wanted and what he did. He referred us to the podiatrist that did Evan's foot surgeries a few years ago. I called them when we left the doctor's office at 9:40. I explained what was going on and they said they could see him at 10 am! That day! As in like 20 minutes! What?! It takes forever to get in to see specialist. We were so grateful! We went straight there.

Evan was still hopping around on his right foot. The parking lot at the podiatrist's office is much bigger and we had to park WAY out there. I decided to give Evan a piggy-back ride so he didn't have to hop that far. He is getting to be a big kid now but not so big that I couldn't handle it. 



Kurt met us at the podiatrist's office. The podiatrist came in and examined Evan's foot. He noticed a few things - there was an extreme temperature difference between Evan's left and right feet, his left foot had blotchy skin and it was extremely painful to the touch - he couldn't even stand for a sock to be on it. The doctor said he thought Evan had a condition called Complex Regional Pain Syndrome. Click (here) for the Mayo Clinic's page on it or (here) for the WebMD page about it. You can't test for this syndrome but Evan had the symptoms. He wasn't totally sure Evan had it but if he did, we had to act fast. We had never heard of that syndrome before but the doctor seemed quite concerned about it but it sounded like it was treatable. We really weren't too sure what we were dealing with. The doctor said early treatment is key to helping this syndrome and said that Evan needed to start physical therapy immediately. He called the physical therapist and they said bring him right over. We were in shock a little bit. Everything was happening so fast. We think our moms were in heaven pulling some serious strings to get Evan into 3 appointments all within a few hours of each other. I'm pretty sure that's unheard of!

At the podiatrists office

We took Evan right over to the physical therapy place. It was 11:30 when we got there and they said they could see him at 1 pm so we went for some lunch and to try to catch our breath a little bit. We tried to research this syndrome at lunch but still didn't understand exactly what we were dealing with.

 Evan at physical therapy.

After the physical therapist had examined and worked with Evan, I asked if she thought Evan did have that syndrome and she said yes and that it was in the early stages, which was a good thing. Evan had already lost some mobility in his ankle and in the flexibility of his toes. The physical therapist said he needed to use crutches so that he could use the foot when he walked but not put all his weight on it. Since we had donated the crutches he had after his foot surgeries last year, we stopped at a medical supplies store on the way home and bought some more. Evan thought one of these looked like more fun than crutches:


Back on crutches - lesson learned: don't get rid of crutches with boys in the house. 

Monday night, Kurt and I spent a lot of time on the internet trying to understand this syndrome. We knew that we had to take what we read and step back a little bit. The internet is a really good place to get overwhelmed and scared and we tried really hard not to overreact to what we were reading. That is easier said than done when you read things like: not curable, lots of pain, pain management, life long, spreading to other nerves, etc. We went to bed very concerned about the future of our sweet, little, active 10 year old. 

The very rough explanation of this syndrome is that the nerves get stuck in panic mode. They overreact to something (like a sprain) and are constantly sending pain signals to the brain. It is a very painful condition and requires a team of doctors to treat.

Tuesday, April 26th - Evan woke up and got ready for school. When he came downstairs I noticed that his feet were different colors.


The nerves can effect the circulation and I was really worried when I saw this. I emailed the picture to his podiatrist. I kept Evan home from school because he was in a lot of pain. Tylenol and Motrin don't work on the nerves so I didn't have anything to relieve the pain for him. 

The doctor called a little later that morning and we talked about what the next steps were. He said Evan needed a team of doctors, just like we had read on the internet. He needed: a physical therapist (which he had seen the day before), he needed a neurologist, he needed a pain management specialist (the doctor had called one but they don't treat children so we needed to find one that specialized in treating children in chronic pain) and he needed a cognitive therapist (this would be for the whole family to learn how to deal with a family member in chronic pain). He talked about getting him into Shriner's in Sacramento because they have all the pediatric doctors down there. He also spoke about a hospital in Seattle that helps with this condition. 

We were in shock! Tuesday was a rough day. Kurt and I were both upset most of the day. Those are just not words you want associated with your child. We were so scared as to what Evan's future would be. He is such an active, healthy boy and to have all that taken away was really upsetting.

The doctor also asked if we could bring Evan in on Wednesday morning so he could do an ankle block on him. The thought is that if you put the nerves to sleep, it gives relief from the pain and also, hopefully, when they wake up, they might "forget" what they were freaking out about and be normal again. It is kind of like resetting them. We said absolutely we would bring him in.

Tuesday afternoon we talked to the nurse at the podiatrist's office. She calmed us down a lot. She said she had seen several cases of this syndrome and that when it is caught early, like Evan's was, that treatment is very successful at getting this syndrome into a remission-like state. She said he could live the rest of his life normally and never have another out-break again. We were so relieved. There was hope that he would be a normal little kid again. We just had to get him through this. 

Tuesday was a rough day for Evan too. He had a lot of pain. The podiatrist talked to Evan's pediatrician and they talked about putting Evan on a medicine that would help with nerve pain. The pediatrician had to figure out the right dosage for Evan because they don't normally have to give it to kids. I waited all day for the pediatrician to call and let me know I could get it for Evan. He never called. I finally called his exchange (after hours) and asked for him to call me. He called me back and said that he was not comfortable putting Evan on that medicine. It is obviously not a medicine that he usually prescribes and just didn't feel right prescribing it. I asked him what I was suppose to do for Evan and his pain. He said to try to make it through the night and do the ankle block in the morning. I was not a happy momma. Usually I love our pediatrician because he is very conservative and doesn't just prescribe medicine but this time it was biting me in the butt! 

We called our home teacher (from church) and he came over and helped Kurt give Evan a blessing. A blessing is to help someone who is sick or needs help. They said a prayer for Evan and asked for guidance as to what we needed to do to help him. They also asked for a blessing of healing.

Wednesday, April 27th - we took Evan to the podiatrist to do the ankle block. We talked to the doctor while the nurse took Evan into the room. He said he had called Shriners that morning and was going to fax down Evan's info after the appt. He then examined Evan's foot again. We noticed that Evan was not reacting when the doctor touched his foot. Before, Evan would react very quickly to any touch. He was now letting the doctor touch his foot, not near his big toe, but most of his foot. The doctor was a little confused and so were we. His foot had improved. After further examining and discussion, it was decided that he would just block the toe since all the pain seemed to be coming from there.

The block did not go well. The medicine can have a slight burning sensation as it goes in. They said it is not bad but Evan thought it was really bad. He was screaming and, let's just say, really upset. The doctor said he didn't even get any medicine in but Evan said he could feel it and then a few minutes later said his toe was numb. He even started playing with his toe. The doctor was confident that he didn't get any meds in. We have no idea who was right; Evan said his toe was numb, the doctor said it wasn't possible. Man, how I wish I could plug into Evan and understand what he is feeling. It would make this a little easier! (I just read this blog post to Evan to make sure he is okay with everything I have said and he said that I needed to add more about the block - that "it was REALLY, REALLY BAD!!!!! LIKE EXTREMELY, EXTREMELY BAD!!!")

We were all dumbfounded. It doesn't make any sense. The doctor said he would order an MRI to try to see what is going on inside the foot. Evan was able to walk around the office. He hadn't walked in about a week! Kurt carried the crutches while Evan WALKED all the way out to the car. It still hurt but not nearly as bad as it had been. We put Evan in the car and then just stood there staring at each other. We couldn't understand what we had just been through. It made no sense.

I kept Evan home from school the rest of the day so I could watch him. He continued to do good. We even went on 2 small walks around the neighborhood. We thought this was just too good to be true and that he would relapse into pain again. 

 On one of our walks - notice a shoe on that foot!

That afternoon he had physical therapy again. He walked into the office and I said "you won't even believe this is the same kid!" But by the time physical therapist was done with him, he was sore again. I was so worried that the pain would come back. I just kept praying that it didn't. 

Thursday, April 28th - Evan was still doing good that morning. It hurt but not anything like it had been. I sent him to school without his crutches. The school office called about 1:30 saying he was hurting. He said a kid had stepped on his foot that morning and that he had tried to be tough all day but it was hurting too bad. I brought him home and had him rest it.

That night he had a pack meeting with his cub scout group. We went and he tried to keep up with his friends running around. He would run and then pick up the foot and hop a few steps and then run again and then hop again. He wanted to be normal and play but it was hurting him.

Friday, April 29th - He did really good. He went to school and after school even walked to the parking lot that I pick him and Hailey up in (it is off campus because the traffic on campus is so crazy). I was going to drive in and pick him up on campus but he said he could walk. He was then running around with his friends. He had a little limp, but nothing bad. That night he had a basketball game. We debated as to what we should do with him. We were worried that if he did too much it would trigger the pain to come back but in the end, we decided to let him play. Usually he plays 3 to 4 of the 5 periods but this time the coach had him play 2 periods and then the last 2 minutes of the game. He did really good. If you knew his foot bothered him, you could tell he was favoring it a little bit but if you didn't know, I don't think you would have picked up on it. He is the black #11. It is truly, truly amazing to me to see him running on that left foot!


He continued to improve over the weekend and into this week. The foot still bothers him but he is walking, running and being active on it.

We just don't know what to think. We are so grateful that he is doing better and that it looks like he does not have CRPS.  His MRI is schedule for today so we will see what that shows. I just can't express enough gratitude to our Heavenly Father for helping Evan. I just keep praying and saying thank you, thank you, thank you! And we will keep praying that we figure out what is going on in his foot and hopefully fix it. And hopefully we never visit CRPS again!

May 3, 2016

T's BIG crash

On April 17th, T had a big crash on his bike. I am not a competitive person (at all!) and I just don't understand boys and the need to compete but they do. We went for a walk to the park. Evan was walking with us and T was on his bike. The discussion turned to who was faster: T on his bike or Evan running and, of course, they had to find out. The first lap was fine. Evan went easy on T and T easily won. No big deal. They decided to do it again. This time Evan turned up the speed and was actually racing T. And as you can imagine, there was a collision. A determined-to-beat-big-brother-4 year old peddling his heart out on a bike is not the most coordinated rider and he ran into the back of Evan. T went flying over the handle bars and landed on his face. Luckily the helmet took the brunt of the fall and the face just slid on the ground. The poor boy was beat up!

There were tears for quite awhile on this one and he wanted Evan by his side the entire time. He sure loves his big bro! We had him sleep in our room so we could hear him and check on him during the night and he wanted Evan to sleep right next to him. They fell asleep holding hands. Such sweet boys!


That poor little face and lip!


Can you see how swollen his lip is?

For the past year I have been dappling in essential oils. I have heard such great things about them so I have been trying them out. I burned myself pretty good last year and used them on my burn. Within 20 minutes the pain was gone. It was amazing. I am so impressed with their ability to assist the body with the natural healing process (I think I said that correct for the FDA).  Anyways, I tried them out on T's wounds. Thanks to a friend's recommendation, I mixed up Melaluca, Lavender and Frankincense in a little spray bottle with some water. Several times a day (maybe 3-5) I would spray it on his wounds. He hated it! It wasn't because it stung but because he wanted me no where near his owies! He won't use bandaids and doesn't want anyone to touch or even breathe near his boo-boos. It makes caring for him a little challenging.

This picture was taken exactly 1 week after his accident. One! Week! Look at that! I think that is amazing! He only had the scab left on his forehead and that puppy was so loose it was driving me nuts.


This is the very next day - the scab was 90% off and just hanging on by a thread. We called it his horn. He refused to let me touch it.


It fell off that night and his beautiful little face was all better. 

The interesting thing is that he had wounds on his knee and wrists that I didn't spray with the oils nearly as much. I was so worried about his face that by the time I got done spraying those, I didn't want to fight him anymore to spray the knee and wrists. His knee and wrists took another week to heal. I took him in the bathroom after that scab on his forehead fell off and showed him his new skin on his forehead and the scab still on his knee. He started to understand how the spray had helped him. He now wants to spray the "magic spray" on every little mark on his skin. 

I know a lot of people don't believe in the essential oils but I have been impressed with the assistance the oils provide in helping the body. I'm sold!

May 2, 2016

Our trip to Utah

Kurt's brother, Paul, had a birthday on March 1st. He was turning the big 5-0. Kurt's other brother, Jared, was flying to Utah to be with Paul on his birthday and we thought we should join the party too so we drove to Utah.

We went to Zion National Park. Jared had never been there before so Dad and Julie wanted to show him around. We hiked to Weeping Rock.



Richard, Kurt and Jared


This earth we live on is so beautiful. We truly enjoying traveling and exploring nature.





After our last hike (I can't remember the name of it), we decided to stop at the lodge and relax in the rocking chairs.

Starting in the back: Richard, Julie, Kurt, Trevor, Hailey and Evan.

The next few days we spent with Paul.

All the boys - Richard, Jared, Paul, Kurt, Evan and T


We had a lot of fun ~ we took a drive, we went to the movies and we went to the mall. 

At the mall, Trevor found all these toys and had to try out every single one! He had a blast!





We don't actually put money in for our kids to "ride" them. We just let them sit in them and play. Well, we went into another store and when we came out, other kids were playing on these toys . . . except their parents put money in and they were moving. Trevor looked at us like "hey, I didn't know they could do that?"

We had to drive home on Tuesday, which was Paul's actual birthday. We had to get back to work and school ~ the kids were back in regular school so we didn't have the flexibility we had with homeschool. Evan had just started the week before and we pulled him out for 2 days already. 

Paul wanted to do something BIG for his 50th birthday. He talked with Travis, the administrator at his home, and they decided to do a 50 mile bike ride. They had done a triathlon together before and thought a bike ride would be a great way to celebrate Paul's birthday. On March 1st, Paul's birthday, Travis and Paul did a 50 mile bike ride! We were so bummed to miss all the excitement. They did a great job. Here is an article written up about it (click here).

Catching up on some randomness

I realized I hadn't posted in awhile so I grabbed my phone to see what has been happening the last few months. Time sure is flying! Here is some of the random things we have been up to:

Basketball

We signed Evan up for basketball for the winter season. He had lots of friends on his team this time. They had a pretty rough season (not sure if they even won a game) but they had fun. They played hard every game, even when they were down by 20+ points. We were very proud of their efforts! 


Evan is black #11.

He came home from one game with a fat lip. 4th grade boys basketball is tough stuff! =-)


Most of the games are Friday nights at 5 or 6, right at dinner time. So it has become tradition that we go out to dinner after the game with friends. I think Friday nights are one of my favorite nights!



Kurt's gut

Long story short - Kurt's vascular surgeon decided he wanted to try a procedure on Kurt's aneurysm. This is the doctor that was assigned to Kurt when he went into the hospital. We have never been super thrilled with him so we decided to get a 2nd opinion. We did the insurance authorization battle and got him into the UC Davis Vascular Department and met with a doctor down there. We really liked this doctor a lot. He was a lot more confident in Kurt's condition and what we should do. He said "no way, don't do the procedure." He said poking around in a dissected artery isn't the best idea because you don't know how it is going to react. We then had to decide which doctor to follow. We went with the one that said "no way." Here is a picture of the aneurysm. It is the big white blob that the arrow is pointing to. We had never seen this view before and thought it was kind of cool.


Cuteness

Hailey and Evan have gone back to regular school and so T has had to adjust to not having Evan around to play with. I was working with Kayla one day and T walked in like this. He had found some electrical tape and decided to be creative ~ better than playing on some electronic device so I told him to go for it. He had a blast!


Sweetness

After one particular hard day with T, I went in to check on him to make sure he was asleep. I just looked at that sweet little face and my heart melted. He tries so hard to keep up with his siblings and I have to remind him, and myself, that he is only 4. He is such a sweet boy and I just want to squish him and love on him! 


Minion Madness

In February, Evan had his Blue and Gold event with Cub Scouts. It was a minion theme and you had to provide 12 cupcakes to be judged. After school, we worked really hard to get all our minions done. Evan's (school) class had a flu bug going around (1/2 the kids were absent that day!). After dinner Evan said "my tummy feels funny." We ended up not going to the event because I didn't want to contaminate other families. We had minions to eat for a long time!


Happy Saint Patrick's Day!

Enough said!


Looking Comfy

This boy likes to be comfy when he watches tv. I came down the stairs and found him like this.


 Personal Headrest

Cooper is such a good sport ~ even when Evan is using him as a headrest.


Working Out

Evan is a very conscience kid - about everything! We were talking one day about exercising and how it is healthy for his body. He then wanted to go to the park and exercise. He ran into a buddy at the park that decided to join him. They did pull ups, leg squats, and ran laps around the park (they went over a mile). It was so cute to see him enjoying exercising and talking with his friend.



Date Night

Our friends, Erik and Amanda, asked us to join them on a date night one night. We went to a new restaurant, Buck and Sadie's, and then to Petroglyph. We had a great time! It was so fun to just sit and talk and enjoy each other's company.

Kurt picked a little gecko to paint.


I picked a mug.


Such a fun night!